I went to Joker with a couple of friends this evening. It sucked. When we were about to leave, we all said goodbye to this one girl that one of my friends was hitting on. We had all went out together once so we knew each other. Both of my friends hugged her. She told my friend to call her tomorrow. Then it came my turn to hug. That part went uneventfully but as I was turning away, this guy grabbed my shirt and threatened me. Immediately all his friends got between us and they told me to leave. That’s all fine and dandy, but the friggin guy wouldn’t let go of my shirt! It took a good 20 seconds for me to free myself. I must say, his friends were really cool about trying to calm things down, but it didn’t save my shirt from getting ripped. Luckily it was a shitty shirt that needed an excuse for me to throw away anyway, but I’m still mad that it got ripped for no apparent reason. I had no interest in this girl whatsoever, and the guy had no reason to threaten me. The only reason I can think of is that out of my other friends, he felt that “his girl” would be interested in me the most and he felt threatened by it.
I’m proud of myself for never ever having been in a fight. I don’t believe in fighting, especially over a girl. This is the closest I have ever been to being in an altercation, and it makes me mad because I didn’t even do anything! I can’t believe there are such idiotic people in this world.
Stupid guys — look, if a girl is showing interest in another guy it’s probably because you’re not interesting enough to keep her attention. It’s either that or you’re just an insecure sack of shit and nothing’s really going on. Don’t get mad at the guy, get mad at yourself for being a loser or get mad at the girl for playing games with you. Don’t go off ruining my shirt to make yourself feel macho. UGH.