One of the younger females at my workplace went on vacation for 2 weeks, but didn’t go anywhere. Upon coming back, she looked different. At first, I thought it was the hair. However, after a few more glances I realized something else must have been done. My less tactful coworkers have asked her directly if she changed anything other than the hair, but she refuses to admit to anything more. I’m convinced she had a nose job, as nothing but her mouth moves when she talks now. She still looks different after her hair returned to its usual look.

Now, I can’t even bring myself to look at her as it seems like I’m talking to a different person. Why would someone want to do something like that, especially when they looked fine in the first place? I can’t help it, but I think less of a person if I know or he/she has had any reconstruction done. When you look in the mirror, are you you any longer? Were you so unhappy with yourself that you wanted to become someone else?

The only way something like this would fly is if you had the work done, then moved somewhere else and met new people who didn’t know how you looked before. You could either do that or go to Hollywood where everyone else does it too.